My parents are coming!
Today! In about a half hour! Their flight is a little delayed, but I'm picking them up at LAX soon.
I'm excited to see them. I'm also nervous to have them get a load of my lifestyle. This is the first time they'll be visiting me since I left Chicago a year and a half ago. (It's also only been recently that I've actually had a stationary place for them to visit.) They would never pass judgment, but they would (and do) worry. Plus, I'm not at my happiest/most content with things lately, and that will make it difficult for me to give them the hard sell about how it was right to choose to live hand-to-mouth and train all the time when I could have a crapload of equity in a piece of primo real estate and a high-powered job. Well, for them, it truly is about what makes me happy. I just don't seem to know what that is these days. I do know it wasn't that. So that's something.
I'll subject them to as little of the watching-me-train-for-hours as I possibly can, though they want to see where I spend most of my time. I'll take them to the store, too, and then of course we'll eat, because that's what we do when we're together. Fortunately, they're not too militant or touristy; they just like to hang out and drink coffee and relax until it's time to eat again and, when 5pm rolls around, have another cocktail. Most of our visits as a family are "delicious."

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Charlie Spider, aka that Don Juan dude's clumsy student, once told us that two of his students came up to him and beamed, telling him they had taken his teachings about fluidity and unpredictability to heart and decided to elope on their way to the Sonoran desert, that they had completely blown out their parents expectation of a big, meticulously planned wedding.
Carlos looked at them and said "What the f*** did you do that was unconventional? All you did was get married and blow out your cubic inch of chance at freedom, for a marriage certificate." He kicked them out of the Nagual's party shortly thereafter. Not that these two knuckleheaded new age wannabees were ever inner circle.
Oddly enough, rumor has it that his former wayward students are still happily married and now have kids and good jobs, whereas the Nagual went to an unhappy cancer ridden end and his little cult thereafter imploded and self-destructed.
So god has a sense of humor after all. There IS an afterlife, mostly hell, and lapsed Catholics (Aranha was definitely a lapsed Catholic) fill it.
(The moral is: have a good time with your parents. Don't go to any weddings. If you do go to any weddings, don't tell us.But be sure to live happily ever after.)
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